For the innocent, AFF is adultfriendfinder.com . Yes, I discovered my hubby had signed up with designerlove.com, and during the MC asked him to take his profiles off of the online dating services he had signed up on. I didn't mention the name of which one, since if there was one, there were probably others. AFF is the one he signed *out* of, not designerlove. HA HA on him, his profile on dl had a big typo on it. Not too many women out there looking for a homosexual man to have an affair with.
Sheesh, I am so sorry for you. But don't put your credit card numbers or other personal info into your current computer because it is probably being monitored.
I would NOT extend him any of your good credit, either.
OTOH, might he be like MY hubby, and say that he was looking at these people on AFF to entertain an active fantasy life? (What kind of dummies do they think we are, anyway?)