eBlaster is a program that monitors PC usage via email, from anywhere else. I briefly considered it for my own computer, to snoop on hubby. Fortunately I didn't get it, because that would make me even crazier!
There is a remote install add-on that can be delivered via email, and if the person clicks on the .exe file, it installs itsself. YOWWW! Do you click on attachments?
It runs in the background and doesn't show up in any of the usual program spots. There are certain entries in the registry that shows it's there, but you would have to know what you are looking for.
The company has another product that sends screen shots, too.
It sends reports on every keystroke typed, and all websites visited, and copys all emails recieved and sent. If this is on your home PC, I suggest you go and change all your passwords on some other computer. And then don't ever use them on the home computer again. Obviously this isn't practical.
Is your computer on the same network as she is? If she's saavy she could have installed packet sniffers, too.
Ha ha. Mess with her mind. Send an email to someone (doesn't matter who, hey how about me??) and tell some semi-believable story and see if she reacts to it. Make up a medical or mental problem and see if she responds to it.
