So this is piecing...

[trustinginHim]

On the eve of the one year anniversary of my bomb, strange things are happening.

Today BMOW cc'ed me on two emails she sent to my H.

It was rather shocking to see emails from her in one of my hotmail accounts, but there they were to greet me this afternoon. Interestingly, my H freaked big time.

I had been checking my hotmail account when he messaged me after lunch to bring him a pair of his glasses he needed at work. I decided that I wouldn't say anything to him about the emails to me from her. I thought I would let him bring it up when he felt he needed to. When I got there, he walked me back outside to my vehicle, not saying anything, but apparently was very upset.

He started by telling me that he had just received two emails from BMOW and that he saw that they had been cc'ed to one of my hotmail accounts--an account she shouldn't have any knowledge of--it is not even in my name.

Now, the emails were totally business, nothing out of the ordinary, I just happened to be cc'ed on them.

So my H, as I said, was freakin'. He went on about how she must have somehow gotten her computer wizard boyfriend/fiance to show her how to hack into our accounts (He can't see why her boyfriend would be interested in hacking on his own and neither can I). MY offered explanation was simply that when he cc'ed me on his last email to her yesterday afternoon, he didn't make the cc invisible to her and when she replied to his email, it was cc'ed back to me automatically. The catch is, her reply is separate from his original email to her and me, unless she deleted from her reply the entire body of the previous email he sent her.

He pooh-poohed my explanation (what--HIM make a simple mistake like not hiding the cc?)and I was sent back home with explicit instructions to change ALL the passwords on EVERY internet account I could think of that we have to let her know that we were aware that she had gained access to our accounts again and were having NONE of it. (Yes--that continues to mean that she may be aware of this website and my postings.) So that is what I have done all afternoon and it is a very tedious process.

While I was changing all our passwords, H and I were text messaging to each other and in the middle of it, I was knocked off-line twice! A little pop-up window told me that I had been taken offline at my current computer because I was now signed in on another computer/device at another location!! THAT freaked ME out and PO'ed my H even more!!!!!!!!!!! SO there could be some truth in what he thinks has happened.

h: Hi - did you understand what I need you to do this afternoon?

h: Change all the internet passwords, including your personal email, and all email accounts at both Yahoo and Hotmail. Consider closing some accounts.

h: I feel sure she knows the 'XXXXXXXX' password and has read your emails. When she tries again she will realize that she has been intercepted.

h: in fact, if you don't use that hotmail account for much anymore, you might consider closing it so that any messages she forwards to it will bounce.

h: Also change all your messenger passwords - they ought to change with the email account, but you may not have email accounts with all of them. Be sure there is no more XXXXXX password in anything.

h: Change both our ebay passwords and both our paypal passwords. Use something serious.

h: we'll get this over and done with.

lost_girl: yes, I know that we will ultimately get past this. Can you help me with the ebay/paypal pwords? I always forget the last four digits.

This was when I got the first pop-up that I just had logged in elsewhere.

h: Are you there?

h: I just saw your account flicker

lost_girl: yes--I just got a message saying that I had been signed out because I had signed in at another computer.

lost_girl: BMOW?

h: crap...

h: is the pword for this one XXXXXXXX?

lost_girl: sorry, yep

h: did you get that list of instructions I sent?

lost_girl: yes I did.

h: If that was her that signed in, and it probably was, then she now knows about this IM account that I am using. I am tempted to scrap it and use another.

h: yeah, why don't we just junk both of these accounts and try some more tonight? I never liked the names on either of them anyway

lost_girl: works for me!

h: use some good random passwords

h: ok I need to sign off and get some work done.

lost_girl: no prob!!

lost_girl: have fun!!!

h: good girl. OK, I am going to run along now. Just remember to change everything!!

lost_girl: yes dear!! I love you!!!!

There is a pause and then:

h: are you really typing something? it says you are over here?????

I am doing nothing and on his end it shows I am supposedly typing him a message.

h: hello?

h: It just shows you were typing over here.

I am finally able to type again:

lost_girl: Uh, nope, it wasn't me. I think it is time we logged off.

Strange huh?

There were several positives in all this. My H is absolutely furious that she continues to harrass us, if that is the case. I think he is really regretting allowing her to remain as his business manager. He spent a lot of time reassuring me that we would get past this too and that he was now so ready for her to be completely out of our life in all ways. I don't know how he is going to get rid of her now, but that is his call--I will remain still and be blessed.

All in all, this has been a very strange afternoon. On another interesting note, my H has continued to receive more harrassing collection calls at his day job regarding unpaid bills for the business with BMOW. That, I am sure, further irritated him about her. I, on the other hand, am remaining cool, calm, collected, upbeat, and STILL.

LG--Praising the Lord for blessing her for being still.