So this is piecing...

[trustinginHim]

Well, there is nothing quite like finding a credit card with BMOW's name on it as I was busy digging in a drawer preoccupied with shredding! I see that my H was so kind as to add her to one of his existing CC accounts at some point in the last year.

I wonder if:

1). Does she still have a card that she is carrying around currently?

2). If not, is she still on the account and have privileges anyway?

Actually, these really are rhetorical/moot questions because my H has filed bankruptcy. According to his CC statements, he charged every last one of his cards over the limit and they stayed there during his MLC trip. Imagine a figure over $100,000. He also spent $15,000 of our savings, but that is another sad story for another day. The statements I am shredding are impressive. My H was a busy boy and tried to appear to his ladies as a BIG spender.

I tucked BMOW's card in a safe place so my above questions could be addressed in counseling later. Then I shall gleefully cut it up. I entertained myself briefly with the fantasy of sending BMOW an email saying I found her CC and that I would be cutting it up and mailing her the pieces, as it was no longer any good due to the bankruptcy.

That's all the shredding I can take for now. I can only relive so much trash/pain each day/week. But next week I will shred some more--there is LOTS left to shred.

LG