Well, H settled for playing computer video games last night. Sigh... he said he felt the need to "kill" something since he can't "kill" the offending parties at work that cause him all his stress. So I fed him dinner and let him be.

My plans for this morning are to continue destroying evidence of OWs existance in H's life. I have several drawers of CC bills with hotel room charges, bar and restaurant charges and the like that I have been working on shredding. There are a lot. But I am slowly removing it all from our life.

Last week I found a pile of "love" cards from BMOW to my H from their affair in one of H's dresser drawers under his socks. Don't know where they came from all of a sudden because I thought I had scoured the place, but there they were. Maybe they were under the mattress and I didn't find them quickly enough for him! I suspect H put them there for me to find and destroy, so I shredded them. It was very relieving to do so!

Time's a wasting. Off to shred and relieve some tension this morning.

LG


A blessed and happy marriage is a union of two forgivers and Him, because...a cord of three strands is not quickly broken. Ecclesiastes 4:12.