I know exactly how you feel. My W did the same thing. She led me on to thinking she wanted to work things out and said "things are moving too fast". After a week and a half, she told me she was going overnight with a girlfriend to Michigan and actually she went to Wisconsin with OM. I broke it off for good and she again tried to get me to try it again. This was after she saw me with another woman. I told her no way. She has since fabricated lies against me and filed an order of protection against me. Life does go on and hang in there. Keep the faith.