Got this big night out tonight with my H for my birthday - really looking forward to it as first time we have been out together since we split up. All going well, until last night he turned up and told me he was going out last night with his mates for a few beers and of he went. I tried to very subtly hint to him how much I was looking forward to Friday night with him, and for him to take it steady. He has to get up for 6am every morning for work so if he went mad and ended up going to a club he would not get in until 3am, and have 3 hours sleep, and hence not be in a too great mood for our night out.
I do not know what it is, but every time things are going well, its like something comes along and slaps you in the face and brings you down to earth with a bump. I am now worried becuase I know what my H's is like. He might go out with the intention of only having a few beers, but once he gets out he cannot say no, and I am sure he will have gone clubbing. What can I do? I am worried that when I see him later and he tells me what he did last night, that I am going to react and the last thing I want to do is have an argument before we go out and spoil the night. On the other hand if he is tired and miserable becuase he went out clubbing last night, then this will upset me as it will spoil our evening.
All i want is to have a really good night, and I do not want anything to spoil it..
