We have just come back from a weekend away together with our daughter and dog. It was a lovely weekend. For the first time it seemed liek we were completely at ease with each other. We slept in the same bed, laughed and joked with each other just like old times. He even kept holding my hand in bed at night time. When we came back I felt really sad as I just did not want him to go. He asked me what was wrong and I told him that I had had such a good few days and that I did not want it to end. All he said was is - oh well back to reality. I feel like our relationship has really built back up and is back onto a good strong level now. My H told me he had a really good time when he was away and seemed really positive about everything. But why will he not come home? If things have got really good between us again why is this not enough for him to make the decision to move back?