My H and I have been living apart for 4 months. Over the past 4 months, we have made great progress. Thanks to Divorce Busting I have seen some real improvements in my H over the past 2 months. You do need to know that my H is not involved or aware of Divorce Busting or any actions I have been puting into place. My H does now appear to be much closer to me, we see each other every day as we have a 15 month daughter. We go out for days together, and are goign away at weekend together as a family. He has tea with us every night, and we have starteda physical relationship again. Therefore all the signs are positive in us reconciling our relationship. As each week passess I see small baby steps from him that are postive steps in the right direction. My only concern is WHEN will he reach the point when he decided to move back in. I have tried and actioned alot of the points and advice in Divorce Busting which have defintely worked, BUT the final hurdle, so to speak of him actually moving back home just still seems to be a massive hurdle. I cannot approach him directly with this question, as this would just push him in the other direction and potentially undoe alot of the good we have achieved this past couple of months.
Does anyone have any advice how I can overcome what seems like this final hurdle in us reconciling completely?