Great to hear from you. Yes, you are right. I am a planner and controller by nature.
Quote: "I really saw your strength of character when you let me go, gave me space....and work things out on your own. You dug deep, while hurting, and worked on you. I saw your strength and was drawn back to you....the real you, without the neediness or fluff."
I like what your H told you. The bottom line is we need to "get a life" without our WAS. They will either join us eventually or they won't.
As far as friends go, we are doing pretty good with that. H and I were talking about cell phone plans a week ago and H told me that I was one of the few people that he does call back re: not needing many minutes on his cell plan.
Have any Halloween plans? I'm still working on changing the clocks in the house.