The Fat lady has sung...It's really over this time

[sage]

H and I talked over the week and it is alot of pressure to move home and make our M "better/great." Sage enlightened me to that! The "plan" at the moment is for H to stay overnight the next few days and see how he internally "handles" it and just see if we can test out the waters.

Nik, I could spot it because I think it's how my h has felt at times -- the notion that it will never be THERE (right, fixed, whatever) and that he'd have to give up himself and his dreams to focus all that energy! Truth be told, it was a good lesson for me too -- because it reminds me to focus on what works and to stop trying to fix every darned thing at time zero (instantaneously).

My 2 cents...really focus on strengthening the ties by focusing on the "good stuff" -- there's plenty of time to tackle the stuff that needs to be fixed -- Is it (author) Harley that says that every negative interaction should be offset by 5 or more good ones?

Sage