Bob, Great to hear from you. We were all wondering how you were doing. I understand why you had to leave for awhile but how are things now? email me: nikatnight04@yahoo.com
Dagny, I am still so glad that things are going well for you. It's great to see how a conflict can arise but as adults you get past it, learn and move forward. If only everyone were as bright as all of us. LMAO!
gd1, I will definately read what you recommended. You pegged my H just right. I don't think these "types" of people are purposely driving us all crazy they just lack some very important skills pertaining to conflict.
I've been away for alittle bit. I was waiting to have more news before I posted. They latest is: H and I have been procrastinating with telling the kids. Actually it is more H procrasinating and me just waiting for him to be ready so we can tell them together. We had planned on having our talk last sunday, then wed., then friday and now it was suppose to happen today.
H and I talked over the week and it is alot of pressure to move home and make our M "better/great." Sage enlightened me to that! The "plan" at the moment is for H to stay overnight the next few days and see how he internally "handles" it and just see if we can test out the waters.
We may very well be prolonging an inevitable D. No question about that but something keeps us both procrastinating a bit longer.
H actually stayed over night 3 days last week because I had to be out of the house earlier than normal and he needed to watch the kids. That seemed to be fine.
