Pam, Yes, it is good that he is willing to help with the kids and is a good father when he is around. We must always focus more on the positive more than the negative. Thanks!
Daybreak, give me a hint of who you are? I can keep a secret! H moved out for the 3rd time in April. H was "planning" to come home per his decision but then backed out.
Sage, Actually, we did not make a list of the things that need to be improved. H just knows that I want a good/great M and that that does take work on both sides.
Yes, the task may seem to daunting. I would agree that the whole thing is alot of pressure.
We are planning to tell the kids on wed. now. Yesterday, we got side tracked and then it got too late to show the kids the apt. so we are delaying it until tomorrow.
H and I did some talking yesterday and H has felt that during our whole M he was judged for what he wanted to do or did. H felt closed in and does not want to feel that he is doing something wrong. Like, having women as friends. Going out to lunch with a woman friend, things like that.
I do admit I have been very jealous and insecure in the past. I think I am still insecure but I do a better job of hiding my insecurities now.
H also apologized again about the EA. H still says it was only an EA and no ML occured.
So that's the latest. I am so mad at him but at the same time it is always nice to just chat. I am feeling better. I know the kids will do fine when we tell them. At least that is what I want to believe. We will only say that Daddy has a new place to live and nothing more.
