Nik - it's been nearly a year since we met at MAL's beach weekend (different user name) and I am trying to keep a low profile on the boards. I agree with Pam - it is a good sign that H feels that the kids are an important part of his life. If he does change his mind, it wouldn't be the first time...

Have you given any thoughts to maybe going a shade of dark once he moves out?


Me 52, STBEX 52
D 17, S 12
M 20 years
Em Sep since 2002, Phys Sep Sept 2009