Looking from a slightly different angle, Tim. You have given us descriptions of your sessions in the past but I can't remember you mentioning giving her oral sex. Certainly it is the only thing that really gets my W going (and coming). If its not part of your routine then obviously it is quite a difficult thing to introduce after so many years but maybe one night when she is in a good mood you could surprise her. You never know, if she likes it you could be quite worn out in no time! SD
I know I've posted this before, but I've posted quite a lot, so it's no surprise if it's been missed: giving her oral is JUST ABOUT my very favoritest thing in the whole world, and used to be VERY MUCH a part of the routine, but she called a halt to it quite a while ago. Since April, there have been a few times when I have incorporated it, but most of the time when we ML, she maneuvers herself so as to allow me very little "wiggle room" for touching her. It's like two boxers, "in the clutches" - about the only things I can reach are her back, legs and backside. If I try to caress her breasts, she will actually block me. Mind you, I'm being GENTLE, not rushing in. So I think part of the problem is that lately I've been lazy about calling a halt to a session if it's "bad sex" - I need to get back to that. If I allow myself to settle for what she's willing to dish out, then she'll keep dishing it out.
