Yep, it's me, the dreaded one, with a dreaded suggestion :-)
You knew it was coming.
You've lost your mojo (not MM, the other one) :-)
Seriously. You have lost your emotional connection with your wife. Been there, done that - more than a few times.
So, you get a version of AntlerDave's prescription.
Five times a day, hug your wife, nibble snuffle, kiss her neck, kiss her cheek and tell her you love her.
Repeat the above daily.
Make love to her three times a week. Nothing fancy, just make sure that it is done in a loving way.
Repeat all the above for three weeks. You emotional connection will return.
You are just out of practice.
This is why I like a schedule. A schedule will force you back together even when you don't particularly feel like it. When you are 'forced' together, the schedule is the initiator. Having a schedule makes it hard not to stay connected to your spouse as the lack of connection becomes quickly apparent. A schedule makes for good maintenance of the relationship.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
