Quote: we clearly have some other major issues (like where we will be spending thanksgiving for example)
How does this become an unresolvable problem? Ellie
it becomes an unresolvable problem because we are incapable of having a discussion about it. Sure we know where we will be spending the holiday but how we arrived at that "decision" is an issue in and of itself that seems unresolvable. He was thinking of himself and "his" family while I was thinking of the children and "OUR" family. There was no talking to him about it...before the topic came up he had already made up his mind and any issue I tried to address was imediately shot down. He wins as usual and at who's expense this time? not just mine but he kids.
