thank you for your replies...it does help to know that people don't think I'm just a serial complainer not worthy of a reply...I do hope that I wont still be posting the same things in 5 years...in fact I hope to not be even looking at this site in 5 years.
Sage,
Quote: Let me ask you this...how do you think h feels about the M right now? If I had to make assumptions they would be all over the board...first I'd think he feels the m is good because we both just go about our business from day to day and things get done...BUT then I'd stop and think well...he can't think that's good since after all he was "missing" something that "connection" and went to ow for it. Since things aren't at all much different (in fact to me they seem worse) than before the seperation he must either still be missing that connection or has resided to live without it for the "benifit of his family"
What do you think he would say if we asked him? (no fair copping out and saying he wouldn't answer...we're talking h in full honesty mode, or h with truth serum + a few drinks in him). I don't think h would have anything bad to say about me I just think he (or at least I hope he would) would admit to the lack of "connection" or "being on the same page" and of course he may just think everythings fine but that he just married an insatiable nutbag who just isn't happy to have a home provided for her.
