if that's a normal m tony, then what is the point? why be married? h was paying the bills while he wasn't falling asleep on this couch and didn't want to be married to me (heck then he was coming by two nights and one full day each week to actually spend quality time with the kids and even managed to do some odd things around the house as well. Come to think of it there were some nights during that time that he actually struck up conversation with me) So what is this?

You can say it sounds "normal" for a man to do little more than go to work and for the wife to just be there cooking and cleaning and rearing the children but you and I both know there is a whole lot more to m than that.

I'm not asking for much. I not asking for romance everynight heck I don't even think I'm asking for romance. I think I'm just looking for a parnership and I don't really feel like I have one. I feel like I'm living my life and he's living his...the days just happend to end with us both in the same house.

LL