but there was a reason once when you wanted a happy m. and it is not to late, and you can still have that. you deserve it. you are a great person and you deserve the best. even if this man is not the best now, that can change still.
I'll ditto that, LL. You are way too young, vibrant, and insightful to just roll over. I'm not sure your H will change in ways that will meet your (totally reasonable) needs.
But by building a better LL, you're ensuring that either way you WILL be loved as you deserve. Either he's going to wake up and smell the coffee before it's too late, or LL will be in her prime for someone who does.
