You may not think it's such a great idea, and I know that season tickets are hard to come by some places, but maybe you should ask him if you could buy a second set of season tickets. You could go together, or separately, but still be at the same game. I know, I always like going to the stadium better than watching on TV. Just a thought. I know you said you don't want to put any more work into it, but this could be considered a reward to yourself for sticking with it. Might be fun to sit with a girfriend who likes football and just enjoy yourself, then hook up with H after the game and compare notes.
Have you ever asked BIL to give up his ticket for you. I know my BIL would certainly do so if I asked him, if he knew why. Another thought.
My H golfs. Golfed with OW and her S10 and S12 over the weekend. After golfing with them, graced us with his presence for the bday party of D3 and D6. I once asked him why he never asked me to golf with him. I don't golf very well, but I have fun. He basically told me that I don't golf well enough for it to be a challenge for him. Hmm, golfing with 10 and 12 year old boys is more of a challenge. I must be really bad!
He's since appologized for the comment and said he'd like to golf with me and that if we're going to succeed, we need to do those kind of things together. But he's still my husband (living elsewhere) during the week and her boyfriend on the weekend. What a putz!
Whatever, I'd ask about getting your own season tickets, or maybe just surprise him sometime and go to the same game, with someone else, and have a good time. He can't tell you not to go if you buy your own ticket. It would be fun just to see his reaction. "Hey, can I catch a ride to the stadium with you, I'm meeting so-and-so"
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