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Well LL, it doesn't take a psych degree to know that THIS isn't good! exactly Rage turned inward can become depression...but I think LL's way too fiesty to go down without a fight! you're damn right about that! I will not give in, I will not go down (well cept for in the bed room) and I will not swallow a pill to put a numbed smile on my face.

You mentioned in a previous post how your H seems of another generation (my words there)...expecting to "bring home the bacon" and little else...you correctly noted that you can't change a person....the hopeful, yet frustrating part is that YOU can't...but HE CAN....


so the age old question arises again...what will it take??
unfortunatley it will probably take what it took for most of the lbs round here to change...trouble is by the time (if) that happens it will be too little too late as usual.
Shiny