Quote: so perhaps that is why occassionaly LL is a "walking ball of rage" but because she looked in the mirror while h was gone...she doesn't blow up or catch others on fire anymore she just goes about her business...thus the tired feeling...the wanting to rip out of my skin feeling...the wanting to go running in the rain alone feeling...etc.
Well LL, it doesn't take a psych degree to know that THIS isn't good! Rage turned inward can become depression...but I think LL's way too fiesty to go down without a fight!
You mentioned in a previous post how your H seems of another generation (my words there)...expecting to "bring home the bacon" and little else...you correctly noted that you can't change a person....the hopeful, yet frustrating part is that YOU can't...but HE CAN....so the age old question arises again...what will it take??