Thought I would stop in and say hi. I haven't been around much for a few months. Guess there are no more similarities between our H's...yours is initiating intimacy with you... trust me it's a rare occurance and a lame attempt when it does occur mine is still off with someone else And it still hurts. I suspect it always will...perhaps a little less with time. Anyway, I hope you can keep seeing the positives and make things work. I keep looking for those needles in the haystack. I can see that it is not an easy journey, but I would still rather take that road than the one I am on. the grass isn't always greener...it is best to find peace in the position you find yourself rather than wishing you were in another. Just when I think I am doing okay, something (most recently a new R with someone) opens it all up again. time heals most wounds or at least they don't itch as much.
But anyway, not much else to say, so I'll just send a hug {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{LL}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}
Robin
I thought of you this spring when a robin made itself a nest up on the rafters in my garage...It hatched it's eggs and flew away...we gave the nest to the new kindergarten teacher.
And it still hurts. I suspect it always will...perhaps a little less with time. Anyway, I hope you can keep seeing the positives and make things work. I keep looking for those needles in the haystack. I can see that it is not an easy journey, but I would still rather take that road than the one I am on. the grass isn't always greener...it is best to find peace in the position you find yourself rather than wishing you were in another. Just when I think I am doing okay, something (most recently a new R with someone) opens it all up again. time heals most wounds or at least they don't itch as much. 
