I don't like to put labels on anyone as I find that most anybody given a few traits could be put into one box or another.
I don't know if h has any disorder and doubt that he'd ever even consider such a thing.
h is social...has to be...his work involves speaking with people on a daily basis (customers, employees, vendors etc)
basically I think h is the way he is as a result of his upbringing. He comes from a world in wich the women cook and clean and gather in the kitchen while the men work and watch sports.
I think what it comes down to is we are just very miss matched.
