I have tried to make it very well known to my husband that I LOVE to watch him...and don't feel any kind of resentment etc towards him should he feel like MB instead of ML to me.
I have curled up next to him and pretended that I was asleep ... sometimes I don't make a peep and let him finish..other times I will slowly get involved with my hands which most of the time will lead us to ML.
This however is not a routine thing for him...only occasional and usually when he finds that his LD has become HD and I am exhausted and he doesn't want to disturb me..... but being comfortable with it is the key thing. I would dtill find it highly intrigueing if he was doing it in the bathroom....I would somehow find a way to make him assume that I was awake so as to disturb the rhythm and maybe? he will stop at that moment hop in the shower to finish and I would join him in the shower!!!! and finish it for him. Most guys wont turn down a bj....especially if it is given with great intensity!!!
JMO though and as a HDW with a fear of rejection... I know the one thing my LDH can't turn down and that is a bj from me.... but that is just because I love to do that for him, me ...US!!!!
