Now, you see, if I were your wife I would have just slept on the couch on the lawn or hauled the thing back in the house through sheer stubborn willpower alone!
I'm taking all of today's advice to heart and mulling over a conversation with H tonight. (He is actually getting home early 'cuz his college football team is playing their first game of the year.) I am planning to start with something like..."I was just thinking today, it's been about six months since we had that very emotional conversation where you cried on my lap and said you would do anything to improve our sex life and save our marriage. I know a lot of very busy things have happened in our life since then, but I was wondering how things are going with our sex life, in your opinion?"
He will then give me his answer and, knowing H, will ask me how *I* think things are going. Then I guess I'm just going to have to practice brutal honesty.