What would happen if the following question was asked of your husband.
"Hubby. I know that you masturbate several times a week. I don't have a problem with you masturbating, except that I feel you are taking away potential intimacy between us. Will you promise to make love to me at least as often as you masturbate? That way you can masturbate as much as you want to without feeling guilty, and I can regain some emotional connection with you"
How's that for a loaded question....
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.