Quote: H and I had a very erratic sex life, and the thing that got us on our way was the once a week date nite which we both made a commitment to-- no ifs, ands or buts.
We have attempted this in the past but H ALWAYS uses the "I'm tired" excuse. And nights are the only times that really work for us in terms of scheduling sex, since we have three small kids so morning sex is kinda hit and miss.
I am more than willing to try scheduled sex, as much as the concept goes against my whole desire to be wanted and "taken" as it were.
- Heavyheart (who often suggests, on date night, that we go to the sex shop...but H just thinks I'm kidding and we go see a movie instead)
