Thanks MM...nice to know someone else has been in a similar sitch. One thing about my alcoholic hubby was he liked having sex. Sometimes I think it would be better to have stayed with him: at least I knew it was about the beer and not about me. In this siuation, I'm not quite to that point yet.
So tell me, mystic MM, what is your magical formula for getting out of this situation (while staying in this marriage) and still keeping my sanity?!
