No real bent that I've noticed. It is pretty typical porn: guy meets girl (or girl meets girl), they have hot sex in several positions. As for the pictures he looks at, it is classic stuff: scantilly clad women playing with themselves. There is no bondage or S&M or gay porn or anything like that.
As for a timeline...we married in 10/99 (lived together 13 months before that). Saw a counselor most of 2000. Cruise was in late 2000. Got preggo on cruise but had miscarriage early 2001. I don't remember exactly when I gave him the ultimatum, but I was laid off soon after Sept. 11 '01 and I know the ultimatum (and "sex Wednesdays") came while I was working...so maybe mid-2001? His cry-on-my-lap session was early this year. The three years in between was a lot of power struggles in the sex arena, and a lot of me being terribly nasty. Since the cry-on-my-lap I have been a much calmer person on the outside, but really bottled up on the inside.
Not sure if that's what you meant by a timeline. I can be more clear if you can pinpoint certain areas...? Thanks.
