I hear this over and over again, but as an HDM, I just don't understand it. Why would anybody choose MB over ML with a willing W?
I don't understand either but I know how you feel HH. Even during the years of ML on a more regular basis I once found my H mbating beside me in bed while I was crying myself to sleep because his LD was upsetting me. I have always been willing to give him a quickie or BJ although at the moment I am not happy with being his blow-up doll whenever he feels the urge (once every 6-8 weeks). My H never gives me an O once he has 'finished' to him his ejaculation is the 'end'.
I feel for you HH but I recommend that you try to put these thoughts aside, give him the benefit of the doubt and continue to work on the R and having your needs met.
