Quote: they all seem to understand that sometimes you just want to be done, and don’t have a problem with that.
I've definitely made this clear to H. And there have been times (especially when I was pg and he was afraid to have sex with me) that I have taken care of him and have not asked for (or expected) anything in return. I can think of a dozen times I have specifically said, "You know, if you ever wake up horny and just want to have a quickie that would be very exciting for me and something I would love to do for you."
He has said before, almost word for word, what you said about "sometimes for a guy you just want to have the O". My general stance on masturbation (during our previous conversations) has been: I don't mind if you do it, it's perfectly normal, but I think it's unhealthy if you are mbating more often than we are ML'ing. He says he agrees, and I also know he doesn't realize I know how frequently he is MBing.
