Besides, I loooooooove to ML at night--that is when I blow off all steam accumulated from the day, wear myself out, and drift peacefully off to sleep, hot and sweaty and happy.
EXACTLY! I am the same way. The busier and more exhausting my day, the more in the mood I am. IT SUCKS!
H and I had some weeks there last Spring where we were really communicating about sex and I was clear about the frequency I would prefer. (Okay, so I played it down a little bit - if I told him 4-5 times a week he would have flipped!) He says he just can't give me more than once every couple of weeks because he is too tired. Tired is his biggest reason for not wanting to ML.
I like your idea of putting a note in his Playboy. With my luck he would inadvertently flip past that page. Thanks for your advice about not mentioning the mbating - no need to isolate him even further. On the other hand...I wonder what Schnarch would say???
