Have you ever tried telling him how often you want to ML in a given week? What was his response to that?
You know it is such a private thing that I don't know what to tell you about the mbation except to say to try and fight for increased lovemaking and leave the mb alone.
The only other thought I had was to put a note on the playboy that says, "Come find me right now!" or something like that. Lighthearted and sexy would be the tone you would want to set. Or get it out one night and ask to look at it together..
Other than that, I would leave it alone. The more you probe this issue, the farther away he will get. I think emphasizing increased frequency between you two is the way to go. I like the idea of setting your alarm in the morning and hookin up then. I just couldn't do it every day. My body is still asleep at 4:30 when H wakes up so it would be for him, only.
Besides, I loooooooove to ML at night--that is when I blow off all steam accumulated from the day, wear myself out, and drift peacefully off to sleep, hot and sweaty and happy.
