Heavy, You say you are mad at him when he comes home and he hasn't done anything...what specifically are you mad about?
As far as the super wife routine, well, go you if that is what helps you feel like a better person. I'm with Mo...don't do it as a way of extracting sex out of him. It won't work. But I find that I have a much better outlook on my life when I am really throwing myself into my role as a housewife with all I've got. I am that type of person..I want to excel at whatever job I am currently holding. So I try to be a kickass housewife even though no one outside these four walls really gives a crap how good I am at it. It matters to ME. Do I get more sex when H sees how awesome and competent I am? No. In fact, I put forth a theory the other night that the more I do, the less I get in return. He started laughing and said, Yeah why IS that??!?!? (it was a lighthearted conversation and I was giving him trouble) He was seriously confused as to why that dynamic would pop up...the more he gets from me, the less he gives to me. Now, I could back off and do less for him but I prefer to let him stew in his own selfishness instead of bailing him out by sinking to his level.
Besides I feel good when I overachieve as a wife and mother--not that I have done much of that recently! I'm 37 wks pg and layyyyyyyyyyyyy-zeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee.
