yeah i wouldnt want to do that, I love him too much to shoot him. But I would really want him to show more affection how he use to. BTW, he works in the correctional area, so he knows how the prision system works....
Hi - I'm in similar shoes as you are and I don't have much advice at this point (other than "leave him" which is what I would have done before we had kids if I'd known how bad it was going to get down the road). But you probably don't want to hear that!
Its not that I dont love him. I do love him with all my heart, its just that before we were married we would have sex often. Now, since we found out about having a baby last december, we decided to get married and at that point, it was when things started going downhill! So, in other words, Im just trying to see what I can do in order to make things go better. I will never leave him, Im just trying to make things better for us before we get to that point.
I usually don't hang out in this area of the BB, but thought I would respond.
Are you pregnant or have you just had a child? Do you have any children in the marriage? Tell us more about your situation.
This could be one cause of your husbands LD. The added pressure of a child could really be adding to the stress your H is feeling. Or maybe your H feels he married for the wrong reason. It doesn't matter now you are married and your committed to your marriage.
You may want to consider counseling, either together or individually. The trick is finding a solution oriented pro-marriage counselor. You definitely do not want things get any worse than they are now.
