you see im the one wanting the affection and he isnt. The only time he shows me any affection what so ever is on his work mornings. He comes in to kiss me good bye and says he loves me. Thats it though. There is no sex at all. Im the one wanting the hugs and everything, its just that when he comes home from work he is wanting to get out of his work clothes and sleep. Thats about all I see from him. It hurts alot. but if I just try to ignore him, I dont think it will do that much good. Because he really doesnt see things how I would like to have them.