helpme asked: Can anyone give me any advise on what i should do in this matter? ----------------
Shoot him and put him out of your misery.
Sorry, I kind of meant that, but I know it's not helpful. My advice is to deal with it immediately, which is what you're here to do. Not doing so was the biggest mistake of my life.
Let him know how important it is to you and that something HAS to be done NOW. Get him talking about what he's feeling and what both of you want. Find a Counselor if you need to.
