thanks superdave for your reply. i hope that I do get the problem fixed soon, rather than letting it get worse as time goes by. I have been trying everything i can think of to try to change things for the better, but it just seems like everytime i bring up the subject of sex, my H gets really mad at me. So, in ways, I dont know what to do. Im hoping that are sex life does improve and whatever stresses he does have, he doesnt put all on me and make me the one who suffers. Thanks again for your reply.