I think it is time for me to read DR again. I feel like I have lost my focus on how to act w/ H. Need to reinforce it in my mind.
I also know that my main focus right now has to be on me - losing weight for me, concentrating on my finances & my house. I feel the best when I am doing these things. There are just times when I can't push the thoughts of H away & start to wallow in it all... how did we end up here??
I know I've asked before, but do you think it is really possible to be going thru a MLC at 30 years old? H certainly shows a number of the traits of a MLC.
One of the things i will miss about H's boss (someone I knew pretty well at work also) is he was always telling H to "get his head out of his a** & get back home"
