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I know I have psychological problems concerning money because my Mom was a manic-depressive spendaholic and my Dad was a fiscal conservative who worked for the IRS. Going to the mall is the equivalent of going on a drinking binge to me. This causes me needless suffering. For instance, I was too cheap to buy a double-stroller when my D was born, so I spent 2 years pushing my S in a stroller and carrying my D in a backpack.


Yet another way in which you and your H are vastly different. It kind of explains the different attitudes you and he have over the sweating in the car issue. He probably gets irked that you don't treat his stuff better, and your not even conscious of it.

SM


"If we will be quiet and ready enough, we shall find compensation in every disappointment."
Henry David Thoreau