You're hilarious! You're using your obvious superior intelligence assuming that everyone should spend the same way. Don't get me wrong, I'm not at all for wasting money. And early in my M, my W fed us for $25 a week.
But just as spendthrifts gain security from saving, spenders get affirmation from using their money. I guess the key is to stay out of the ditch on both sides.
I say, "Let me take you out for dinner and hire a housekeeper so you can save all that energy for sex!"
Mike - blessed to have plenty and gladly spends it. ...Now, about that unknown sex act my W is going to do...