You know, I am okay with the destruction of my home (of course I do not have boys so I know not what I am saying, right!) but I cannot tolerate the crying and screaming!
She drives us all crazy but boy is she funny.
And, yes, you are absolutely right about the boundaries. I am the one and only boundary setter around here. H is a great dad but is NO disciplinarian. I am totally responsible for making sure that my children are not spoiled brats--which they are not. However, he does a lot of childcare duties that I just do not have the energy for at nighttime (such as bath, putting pj's on, blah blah) and for that I am eternally grateful.