I don’t post much over in this section but lurk quite a bit and have been following your latest thread (and Mojo’s) with great interest. My W and I are separated right now, partly because of some SSM issues, hence my “lurker” rather than "active participant" status over here.
Over on Mojo's thread you posted about an article your H brought home about how the suggestion of divorce allows a black cloud to enter the home and hang there. Any chance you could provide a link or other identifying info on where that article originated? Thanks!
B
p.s. Best of luck with the final weeks of your pg!!