Chris, Nah no plan. Just concentrate on physically healing, trying not to fall asleep while standing due to sleep deprivation, hoping that my nipples toughen up at some point....you know, the usual postpartum stuff.
With D2 we had sex at 4 weeks, and I will be fine if that is when it feels physically good enough. (that is, barring any tearing and additional healing time, etc)
Are you asking me if H and I will mbate or give oral or hj's in the interim? No. But with the first two, I found that while I was excessively horny, I could wait simply because of the demands of a newborn and nursing, getting up every hour, etc.
It is AFTER the healing process is complete that I will have a hard time surviving if his drive has not bounced back.
I asked last night if he would have been able to finish (these last two times we've ML) if I were not preg and thin and he said yes. He then said he could have finished anyway but he would have had to really do it hard and aggressively. AS IF I would have been upset with that...? I don't understand his actions but they are his and his alone, kwim? I just said that he knows that I like it like that and wouldn't mind but if he feels uncomfortable pursuing an O aggressively, then that's what he gets. I said it a lot nicer than that, but that was the gist.
