Quote: Last night I initiated via H's "just grab it" method and, folks, I do have to admit that he really likes this method. I wish it did more for me, is all. However, it works and he likes it so I keep it in the arsenal.
Hey, your one step ahead of me since I just managed to suggest to my H yesterday that he might let me try this method sometimes. I am imagining it as being fun if I can throw in a little context or role play. For instance, throw it in as an aggressive move in an argument by grabbing it and saying "I would really prefer Chinese to pizza.". Or pretend that he isn't even in the room and whatever exchange is going on is strictly between me and his c*ck. Or do it but pretend that I don't even know that I am doing it "I think you dropped some ketchup on your lap etc.".
I am going to treat the fact that he claims that watching porn is a surefire winner in much the same manner. For instance, I am going to order some porn that actually incorporates some plot but still has some hardcore sex scenes and I am going to order some porn that has a lot of the stuff that I like in it. I am also going to suggest that he should take some pictures of me or us. Perhaps I will even further exploit the voyeuristic side of his drive by suggesting that we go to an "exotic' nightclub together or visit a topless beach.
Now that I have a co-operative partner and I am no longer pathetically thin-skinned about my own sexual attractiveness the possibilities are endless.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
