First of all, listen to Corri and the fact taht you are probably hormonal to some degree.

Secondly, I'm going to focus on the following statement because I've been through this already and it's taken me some time to understand.
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H and I had a long talk last night and I feel that he still doesn't GET ME. What I am about, etc. After all this time, he still doesn't understand what all this means to me and how paramount it is to my personality.




Why do you feel like he *should* "get you"? Do you really care if he "gets you" if his behavior doesn't change? Wanting someone to "Get you" is a fusion-fantasy. If it's to take some of the difficult effort away from having a meeting between the sheets, then you are talking about "behavior". I was desperately wanting my W to *know* how I functioned so I could offload the responsibility to her sometimes because I was so tired and fearful of her response. It goes back to "shared functioning and how "giving up" a behavior can sometimes lead to your spouse taking it over that behavior on their own...the flip-flop.

Just hang in there through the preg and use that time to not worry about any of this.

-Dave (falling asleep at the keys).

Anywhere is walking distance if you have the time -Steven Wright