Quote: It's also somewhat hard to accept that I have no money now to contribute to our expenses.
H has had trouble with this one. Both of us have been inconsistantly employed since we got married. I got stuck in a career field that was hit hard by the problems with the economy. And, well...bartending isn't exactly the most stable of jobs.
So we've both been stressed about supporting/being supported. Just wanted to give you a little caution here...my grumpiness about my (lack of) job situation is part of the reason we started having so many problems. Of course, you're probably well aware to be careful of that. But I definately let my personal dissatisfaction affect H.