No it isn't their business, so it sorta mystifies me why you'd tell them..?
It wasn't your H who spilled the beans, it was you.
Dori, I am very sympathetic to your situation but I notice that you have a tendency to paint your H in the most negative light possible when that's not necessarily the whole truth. Kwim?
Any ideas why you do this?
I'm guessing resentment. So my next question is, How do you think you can begin to rid your relationship of these toxic feelings?
One last question: Your H obviously violated a major boundary with you, regarding touching. Does he have respect for your boundaries outside the bedroom, or is he a disrespectful person in general?
